How To Say No
Your hotel room smells like stale smoke and you wake up coughing and sneezing. The sign says "No Smoking." Still, smoke is so thick inside the sports arena that you cannot enjoy the game. Cigarette smoke from other tables makes it hard to relish-or even taste-your restaurant meal.
Saying No in Public Places
In some cities and towns, smoking is forbidden in most public places, and many restaurants are completely smoke-free. Yet in other localities, restaurants, bars, sports centers, bowling alleys, theater lobbies, waiting rooms, and other public places, remain smoke-filled. Of course, enforcement of smoking bans is often lax.
How can you avoid other people's smoke in public areas? Take full advantage of nonsmoking spaces and limit the time you spend in places that don't protect nonsmokers.
Here are some ideas:
- Always take the "nonsmoking" options that are available. Today, many restaurants have nonsmoking sections and hotels offer nonsmoking rooms and floors. You can even get a nonsmoking rental car. If one place doesn't offer nonsmoking, choose another that does. The strongest statement against smoking in public places is made by taking your business elsewhere.
- Don't accept what you can change. If a restaurant puts you at a table near smokers (even if you're in a non-smoking section), ask to move. If smokers don't obey nonsmoking rules, ask those in charge to enforce the rules. When people near you are smoking, ask them politely to either stop, move the ashtray, or hold their cigarette away from you.
- Keep children out of smoking areas. Choose "non-smoking" even if people in your group smoke. They can smoke outside or go into the smoking section if they need a cigarette. If there are no nonsmoking sections, go someplace else.

